I'm a 51-yo male with ADHD (diagnosed in my late 30s) who's been using YNAB since \~2016 and....I still feel like I'm not "getting it" in a lot of ways. It's been immensely helpful to raise my awareness of my spending and try to be intentional about it. In this way, it's helped counter some of the adverse effects of ADHD (e.g., impulse buying, overusing credit card). In other ways, though, it's still a huge struggle, given the executive functioning difficulties I have. Things I struggle with: * I'm not even close to being a month ahead. I used to have a healthy buffer but due to life circumstances most of those savings have been depleted. * The monthly rollover is still confusing. * Targets are **really** confusing (they've gotten more and more complicated). * It takes me a lot of time and mental effort to simply enter transactions and keep up with my spending tab in the app. * Because of the above, I still feel lots of **shame** when I budget my paychecks and TBH whenever I open the app. I don't want to give up entirely on the app but just feel...deflated at how difficult and ponderous it feels to use sometimes. I'm just wondering if anyone can relate. Sometimes I feel like there's something I'm missing or not doing "right" that's preventing me from using this tool to its full potential. And that I'd need a full-time coach or similar to help me use it. It's just a lot of mental overhead and feels overwhelming more than I'd like it to. Maybe this is coming up because I'm "back" to living paycheck to paycheck and as a longtime user I feel shame over not being more on top of things. Rationally I know that I need to take a deep breath, try my best to keep things simple, and go back to the basis, but emotionally this is hard. Thanks for listening/reading if you've made it this far!